Overweight kids face widespread stigma

Sylvia Rimm, author of “Rescuing the Emotional Lives of Overweight Children,” said her surveys of more than 5,000 middle school children reached similar conclusions.

“The overweight children felt less intelligent,” Rimm said. “They felt less popular. They struggled from early on. They feel they are a different species.”

Parents should emphasize a child’s strengths, she said, and teachers should pair up students for activities instead of letting children pick their partners.

McAfee, who now works for the Council on Size and Weight Discrimination, said her childhood experiences even made her reluctant to see a doctor when she needed one. She recalled one doctor who said she looked like a gorilla and another who gave her painkillers and diet pills for what turned out to be mononucleosis.

“The amount of cruelty I’ve seen in people has changed me forever,” McAfee said.

The Yale-Hawaii research report recommends more research to determine whether negative stereotypes lead to discriminatory behavior, citing evidence that overweight adults face discrimination. It also calls for studying ways to reduce stigma and negative attitudes toward overweight children.

“Weight-based discrimination is as important a problem as racial discrimination or discrimination against children with physical disabilities,” the report concludes. “Remedying it needs to be taken equally seriously...”

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