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It's been a tough few days for "Idol" runner-up Crystal Bowersox. First, her boyfriend split on Tuesday, then she loses the contest on Wednesday.
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updated 5/27/2010 3:12:04 PM ET 2010-05-27T19:12:04

“American Idol” runner-up Crystal Bowersox and boyfriend Tony Kusian have split.

After losing the “Idol” crown to Lee DeWyze on Wednesday night, the singer reveled to Ryan Seacrest on his radio show, “On Air With Ryan Seacrest,” on Thursday morning that she’d also lost her relationship.

“Big Tony ... he went home. He wasn’t cool with the lifestyle,” Bowersox told Seacrest. “I didn’t break up with him ... it was a mutual thing.”

Video: Bowersox ‘serene’ at being runner-up

The folksy rocker mom, who has a child — also named Tony — from a previous relationship, said her new found fame has taken its toll.

“It’s cool though, we’re both logical, grown adults,” Bowersox continued. “He’s a small town guy and that’s fine, but I’m a small town girl, but I want this. I want this more than anything, this career, this lifestyle. I didn’t think he was up for it. He didn’t think he was up for it. It’s just been crazy.”

Photo gallery: Lee’s big night and Simon’s goodbye

The 24-year-old singer said the timing of the split was particularly hard, but that she tried to use the pain to inspire her performance.

“I was a little sad that he did it on performance day, but then again, it set that fire to my belly, you saw it,” she explained.

Photo gallery: Lee DeWyze in the studio

Despite the split, Bowersox said she wished Kusian well and thanked him for his support during her “Idol” run.

“He’s been amazing, he’s stuck it out through this whole thing. I was really hoping that he was going to come to the finale,” she said. “We’re going to friends for a long time.”

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Photos: ‘American Idol’ season 9 finale

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  1. A true Idol

    Country superstar Carrie Underwood, who was the season 3 winner, performs "Undo It" during at the "American Idol" finale at the Nokia Theatre in Los Angeles on Wednesday, May 26. (Vince Bucci / PictureGroup via AP) Back to slideshow navigation
  2. School daze

    Alice Cooper, center, joins the 12 finalists to perform his hit "School's Out" during the "American Idol" finale. (Vince Bucci / AP) Back to slideshow navigation
  3. Guitar gal

    Orianthi helped to kick off the "American Idol" finale, joining the top 12 finalists and Alice Cooper in a rendition of "School's Out." (Frank Micelotta / PictureGroup via AP) Back to slideshow navigation
  4. Taking it to the finale

    Former Doobie Brothers singer Michael McDonald, left, and finalist Michael "Big Mike" Lynche perform "Taking It To The Streets" during Wednesday night's finale. (Vince Bucci / Reuters) Back to slideshow navigation
  5. He's baaaack

    William Hung returned to perform "Pants On The Ground" with its writer, Gen. Larry Platt (on the ground, center), during Wednesday night's show. (Vince Bucci / AP) Back to slideshow navigation
  6. Can't keep him down

    Newly crowned "Celebrity Apprentice" Bret Michaels and Idol finalist Casey James team up on Poison's hit "Every Rose Has Its Thorn." (Vince Bucci / AP) Back to slideshow navigation
  7. Oh yeah, they know

    Crystal Bowersox gets a little help from Alanis Morissette, right, on Morissette's hit single "You Ought To Know." (Kristian Dowling / PictureGroup) Back to slideshow navigation
  8. A little bit of soul

    Darryl Hall, top left, and Jon Oates, top right, otherwise known as Hall & Oates, perform "I Can't Go For That" and "Maneater" with the top 12 male finalists. (Vince Bucci / PictureGroup via AP) Back to slideshow navigation
  9. She is beautiful

    Christina Aguilera was among the music superstars to perform at the "American Idol" finale at the Nokia Theatre in Los Angeles on Wednesday. (Kristian Dowling / PictureGroup) Back to slideshow navigation
  10. Sweet home Chicago

    Lee DeWyze, who hails from Mt. Prospect, Ill., joins the band Chicago to perform a medley of their hits during Wednesday's "American Idol" finale. (Vince Bucci / AP) Back to slideshow navigation
  11. Happy reunion

    Ex-judge Paula Abdul, left, who often played Simon Cowell’s sparring partner during the seasons the shared, returned to say goodbye to the acerbic British judge. "I've loved all the fun we've had together," Abdul told Cowell. "'American Idol's' not gonna be the same without you." (Vince Bucci / PictureGroup) Back to slideshow navigation
  12. Swan song

    Simon Cowell, left, next to Kara DioGuardi, made his final appearance as a judge on "American Idol" on Wednesday night. The caustic Brit will launch a new show, "X-Factor," in 2011. (Michael Becker / PictureGroup via AP) Back to slideshow navigation
  13. No, her first name isn't baby

    Janet Jackson performs her hit "Nasty" during the "American Idol" finale at the Nokia Theatre in Los Angeles on Wednesday, May 26. (Vince Bucci / AP) Back to slideshow navigation
  14. Simon takes his bow

    Simon Cowell gets a hug from Ryan Seacrest, center, while receiving an ovation from past "Idols" and fans in the Nokia Theatre on Wednesday. (Ray Mickshaw / PictureGroup via AP) Back to slideshow navigation
  15. They are the champions

    "Idol" winners Carrie Underwood, left, Ruben Studdard, center, and Kelly Clarkson were among the former contestants who took the stage Wednesday to pay tribute to Simon Cowell. (Kristian Dowling / PictureGroup via AP) Back to slideshow navigation
  16. A little help

    Crystal Bowersox and Lee DeWyze are joined by Joe Cocker on "A Little Help From My Friends" in the closing minutes of the "American Idol" finale. (Kristian Dowling / PictureGroup via AP) Back to slideshow navigation
  17. Awaiting the results

    Crystal Bowersox, left, and Lee DeWyze, center, await the announcement from host Ryan Seacrest of the "American Idol" season nine winner. (Vince Bucci / AP) Back to slideshow navigation
  18. Lee's first song

    Season nine winner Lee DeWyze performs "Beautiful Day" during the "American Idol" finale at the Nokia Theatre in Los Angeles. (Vince Bucci / AP) Back to slideshow navigation
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