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Video: Mom: ‘I don’t forgive’ Somer’s ‘coward’ murderer

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    >> diena thompson is with us exclusively. good to see you.

    >> you, too, matt.

    >> how did you get through that snm just do what you've got to do. no other choice. it's stand up and fight or lay down and die. i won't lay down and die for a monster.

    >> you talked about spending all your energy ensuring he got the death penalty . in this court procedure basically you agreed to life in prison . why?

    >> basically with the information that was afforded to me by the prosecution considering all parties involved, my children who would be drug back into the court for god knows how long, this ensured he would never hurt another child which is truly giving justice to other children. what we want and what we get sometimes aren't the same thing.

    >> i have had people sit here before in similar, unfortunate circumstances and they say part of the reason they did something like this is because there was some sense of forgiveness. i don't get that from you at all.

    >> no. i don't grforgive him. he's going to leave prison in a coffin and probably sooner than he would have on death row .

    >> talk to me about your children and family members who spoke directly to jarred harrell. your son samuel. this is somer's twin. he was 7 at the time. he's 9 years old now. did he want to do this?

    >> not at first. when he heard everyone talking he wrote that statement and he got up and made us all so very, very proud of his strength.

    >> he's a brave little boy . do you worry, diena, that it was a haunting experience -- the courtroom appearance as opposed to some kind of healing experience?

    >> no. when he got done reading it and spun around in the chair you could almost see relief that he got to face the monster and tell him what he thought. at least that's what i felt like.

    >> your oldest daughter abigail told jarred harrell his name is monster. this is the part i think i uh might have asked you last time. how do you tell your children and how should others prepare their children for the fact that there are -- i always tell my kids there is no such thing as monsters. ghosts, monsters. they are in the movies. how do you dew prepare your kid cans and how should others prepare their kids that there are monsters out there?

    >> we have to empower our children. rad kids, all kinds of programs you can get them in. we can't tell them. we have to teach them. i told somer and it didn't do any good. we had to teach and empower our children. you can kind out about rad kids on their website or go to summerthosumm -- somerthompson.org.

    >> this man stole such an innocent thing from the world. this is a walk home from school. how do your children deal with something so simple today?

    >> unfortunately they are much older than they should be. they have been forced to grow up really fast because of this situation and much like the rest of us, have a hard time trusting pretty much anybody. we have to treat everybody like we don't know them.

    >> do you wish he would have looked at you in court, made eye contact? was that something you were hoping for?

    >> yes. he owed me that. he owed me at least that.

    >> why?

    >> because he stole my child from me in such a vicious way. my family deserves that. he should have said something. but he's a coward. that's what a coward would do.

    >> the last two years of your life have been dedicated to making sure justice was served here. do you think it was served? and where do you go from here?

    >> it's served as best as it can be. i think the inmates in prison are probably going to do him some justice for me. i just want to move forward with the foundation and try to help other families and try to do something to make it where this can't happen again.

    >> you're a brave lady with a brave family. thank you for coming back.

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updated 2/8/2012 9:42:58 AM ET 2012-02-08T14:42:58

While the legal system didn’t quite deliver the justice she had hoped the man who raped and murdered her young daughter would receive, Diena Thompson believes retribution will soon be on the way for Jarred Harrell.

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The man her family has called “a monster’’ cannot be forgiven for what he has done, and he will pay with his life one way or another, she predicted Wednesday.

“No, I don’t forgive him,’’ Thompson told Matt Lauer on TODAY. “He is going to leave that prison in a coffin, and probably much sooner than he would on death row.

“(Justice) is served as best as it can be, and I think that the inmates in the prison are probably going to do him some justice for me.’’

On Friday, Harrell, 26, was sentenced in a Florida courtroom to six life sentences without parole for the abduction, rape and murder of 7-year-old Somer Thompson in October 2009, as well as charges of molesting another young girl and possessing child pornography. The prosecution accepted a plea deal to guarantee that Harrell would spend life behind bars without parole rather than be tied up in the appeals process involved in seeking the death penalty.

Story: Somer’s mom: Death penalty would be ‘fair’

“Basically with the information that was afforded to me by the prosecution, considering all parties involved, (including) my children, who would be dragged back into the appellate courts for God only knows how long, this ensured that he was never going to hurt another child, which is truly giving justice to other children,’’ Thompson said. “What we want and what we get sometimes aren’t the same thing.”

Image: Jarred Harrell
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Jarred Harrell is seen in this booking photo released by the Clay County Sheriff's Office.

Family confronts killer
Seven members of the Thompson family spoke directly to an unemotional Harrell in court Friday during his sentencing after pleading guilty. They faced Somer’s killer more than two years since she was abducted on Oct. 19, 2009, on her way home from school in Orange Park, Fla. Her body was found two days later in a nearby Georgia landfill after Harrell had raped and strangled her to death. He was arrested after a month-long investigation that Diena Thompson worked hard to publicize, appearing on TODAY at the time in order to help find the murderer.

The Thompson family alternately expressed its anger and grief at Harrell in the courtroom as he sat expressionless.

“He took her dignity, her virginity and then he took her life,’’ Diena Thompson said in court. “After all that, he then treated my child like trash.’’

Video: Somer Thompson’s family confronts her killer (on this page)

“I honestly don’t know how you can live with yourself,’’ Abigail Thompson, Somer’s older sister, told Harrell while fighting back tears. “You don’t even know how bad you’ve hurt my family. I hope you suffer like me and my family did. I can’t even explain how much me, my friends, my family, everybody I know and everybody my family knows, how much they hate you. You’re not even a human being. Your name is not Jarred Harrell. Your name is ‘Monster.’ ’’

Somer Thompson’s twin brother, Samuel, 9, initially was not going to speak but composed a short speech right in the courtroom once he heard his other family members expressing themselves, according to his mother.

Story: Mom: Somer ‘assumed they wouldn’t hurt her’

“Jarred, we know you did this,’’ Samuel said while glaring at Harrell. “We have evidence. She trusted you, but you had to do what you did, and look where it got you. And now you’re going to jail!’’

“He wrote that statement right there and got up and made us all so very, very proud of his strength,’’ Diena Thompson said about Samuel. “When he got done reading it, he spun around in the chair (and) you could almost see a little bit of relief in him that he actually got to face the monster and tell him what he thought. At least that’s what I felt like.’’

Video: Mom: ‘I don’t forgive’ Somer’s ‘coward’ murderer (on this page)

‘He’s a coward’
Harrell never apologized or spoke to the family. He would not even make eye contact before he trudged out of the courtroom on his way to Florida State Prison in Raiford.

“He owed me that,’’ Thompson said about Harrell’s refusal to acknowledge the family. “He owed me at least that because he stole my child from me in such a vicious way. My family deserved that. He should’ve said something, but he’s a coward, so that’s what a coward would do.’’

Image: Somer Thompson
AP file
Somer Thompson, 7, vanished on her mile-long walk home from school in Orange Park, Fla.

The entire ordeal was wrenching for her family, but Thompson felt it was necessary.

“Just do what you got to do, there’s no other choice,’’ Thompson said. “It’s stand up and fight or lay down and die, and I won’t lay down and die for a monster.’’

The experience has forced her three remaining children, including Somer’s older brother Andrew, 15, to endure a horror that adults would have a difficult time coming to grips with.

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“Unfortunately they’re much older than they should be,’’ Thompson said. “They’ve been forced to grow up really fast because of this situation and much like the rest of us have a hard time trusting pretty much anybody. We have to treat everybody like we don’t know them.’’

Thompson looks to continue her work with The Somer Thompson Foundation, which she formed in March 2010 to provide education, resources and help to victims of crimes against children. Simply telling children that there are sinister people in the world like Harrell is not enough, according to Thompson.

Story: Mother of Somer Thompson: ‘I feel like I failed’

“We have to empower our children,’’ Thompson said. “We can’t tell them. We have to teach them. I told Somer, and it didn’t do a bit of good. We have to teach and empower our children.

“I just want to move forward with the foundation and try to help other families and try to do something to make it where this can’t happen again.’’

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